I grew up with this church and thogh i've moved a lot i've always kept in touch with this church. Naturally their opinions mean a lot to me as a result of that. I understand that you're telling me as long as i'm happy with me and what i'm doing then their opinions shouldnt matter. Thank you.

thank you for joining. I just cant believe these people would do that. i've seen tons of crap from these people and never passed judgement on them yet they can so easily do it to me. i'm just hurt. i think you're suggestion is great! THey'd probably die though

I think all the advice here is awesome.
you have outgrown, you should look into yourself. they are jelous, and it's a reflection of their intolerance and narrow mindness. it's their own shame, not yours.

Just so you know, I started bellydance in my late teens, danced for about 6 years and then my x-husband made me leave it. Horrible, just plain horrible.

Don't ever let anyone take away from you what makes you happy, you will be so sad.

Bellydance every day of your life.

and I'll be as bold as to say, you shouldn't share your time with people like that. If you must be part of an Organized Religion, find a church that deosn't judge, like you dont' judge.

Good Luck to you.

Alina

I agree with my sister Souzan and this comes from her sister Souzzon (lol) unfortunatly there are many out there who have old beliefs that have to do with showing skin, and the movements as being sexual, after all, belly dancers in Egypt way back when were all ladies of the street. It's unfortunate that many people with these beliefs lump us in with strippers and this is one reason why so many of work hard to educate the public about history of our art and tend to get upset when newbies are out there just shaking it all over or sticking their boobs in men's faces, there's a tactful and artful way to perform.
Sounds as if your new church may be what you need, being that you grew up in the old church there is probably a lot of "old" blood which also means old ways of thinking, hopefully your new church has a more youthful way of thinking and dealing with issues.
It upsets me that your old pastor turned his sermon to the sins after being told about your new art form, i hate to say this but so many churches are just not what they use to be, like the story of a man who took a quarter from the collection plate and was told on, did the pastor take the man aside and ask if he or the church could help, no, he called the police and had him arrested....what happened to love thy neighbor and do unto others....
Well, sorry about the ranting but this is why i don't go to church, i believe that god is everywhere and does not require one specific place for all to gather, after all, did he not go to the people?
Keep your chin up, all here have given you great advice, i wish you continued sucess with your dance and your spiritual path.